To desire is to be alive. Every day you think about what and how to get what you want. So what is it?
What is it and how often do you reflect on how to get it?
Sometimes, it is worth taking ourselves a little more seriously. It is important to believe in yourself as well as the things that you want for your life. You are as smart and as capable as you allow and help yourself be.
By liberating yourself of doubt, negative thinking and restrictions that you put there, you unlock the potential to achieve all those things that you put your mind to. Let me help you a little bit with that!
Lets look at the options you have right now!
Accept it, Decide it, Get it:
Oh just how many things you can accomplish if you simply allow yourself to go further.
I find that most of the times we do not achieve our personal greatness, not out of incompetence, but out of restriction.
It is like a habit, an unconscious way of thinking that is preventing you from accepting the great, the beautiful and the awe-inspiring things you want in your life.
It is like a little whisper in the back of your head telling you that something is too good for you to really want it. You can like it, but you can not want it! Why? Because wanting and deciding are two very dangerous things.
If you accept that you want something, if you decide that you will work for it and get it, chances are that you actually will get what you want.
Do not allow yourself to believe that something is too good for you. Do not restrict what you are allowed to want, want more!
Richard Branson said that if your dreams don’t scare you, they are not big enough. And I believe that! The greater your goals, the greatest you are forced to become in order to achieve them. This is the point behind setting unrealistic goals.
But let yourself dream first, allow yourself think you can have the great things you are after. Want more, go after it!
A decision-making tool that will Get What You Want:
Have you ever heard of the saying that, when you really want something, the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it?
Well, this is not entirely wrong. There is something that really conspires in helping you, it just isn’t the universe, it is your own mind.
Tony Robbins talked about this in one of his talks. It is all about you becoming clear with exactly what you want. You have an idea of what you are after. What you have to do now, is become perfectly clear about it, down to the last detail.
The point of that is that, the better the picture you paint in your head, the easier your mind will find a way to make it come true.
The moment that the picture becomes crystal clear in your head, you become a radar. You detect opportunities and the ways to prepare for and materialize what you are after. It is similar to buying a new car or a new phone, you start to notice everyone else driving or having the same car or phone. The car was always there, but now you start to notice it.
Your mind is the perfect tool for helping you manifest your goals in your life. The opportunities are there, by being clear with yourself you can start to notice them.
- Be true to what it is you are after
- Make it clear as day, down to the details
- Know and really believe you can have it
- Start working on it
Your success is only limited by the times you are willing to try.
The audacity to get what you want:
Last but not least, your third tool towards enabling yourself to win, is audacity.
In order to achieve anything great, succeed in something new, or discover your own path, you will need to face doubt.
Doubt does not always come from within. Sometimes your surroundings can be detrimental to your goals and dreams. Not everyone wants you to succeed and no one wants you to succeed as much as you do.
The doubters and the people trying to “protect” you from disappointment, will make sure to disappoint you before you even begin.
This is were being audacious will mean whether you make it or not!
Take the risk and fail. Take another risk and fail again. Fail until you fail your way to success.
But this is not something you can do if your will is hindered by the ones that do not believe in you. If you believe in yourself, no one else has to. Get excited when someone tells you that something cannot be done. If you think it can be done, do it!
If you feel like your surroundings are weighing you down, maybe it is time to practice spending some time with yourself. Nothing can scare a person who knows that when everything goes to hell, they will always have themselves.
Be bold enough and be brave enough to go out on your own. Do the things you were told you cannot. If you fail, be proud that you are one of those who are playing to win!
So what is it that you want?
No one gives a sh*t about what you would like! What is it that YOU want and are willing to fight for to get it?
If your surroundings are not helping you, move, you are not a tree.
If you need to change, change. Step by step, give yourself time not excuses!